Thinking this way,Am i right?

When its all about him,i really do not know what to do.

~~Exam is over,my family and i am planning to go Genting Highland for a 3 day 2 night vacation. My mother invited him to come along as there is still space for 3 peoples in our car. Other than him,i also invited his 2 sisters. They say they will ask their mum's permission but at last ended up ... they can't go.
I'm sad...He say he will try his best to persuade his mum but when i called him and ask,he is telling me some other things.He is the only guy in the family,and the family need him very much!These are some of those that he told me. But how about me?
Did he ever thought that i need him too? Did he thought that me,as his wife,also need him as much as his family need him?
I do not think so...He don't even thought of that,maybe...

After i heard that he cannot go,i cried...I know,i'm very stupid.
The thing is,before STPM,i already asked him many times and he said okay but now?What answer that he gave me?
He always say that i comes first but when the real situation comes,i do not know how to comment on these...

Haiz...Maybe the time is just not right for us.We will be able to get through all these obstacles,i believe!
I really do HOPE i can go out with him,for a vacation,spending some valuable and precious times together.If its not this time,it will be the next time.
The time will come,this is what he said to me.